Unless it turns you on, don’t watch yourself. Obviously, you don’t want it too loud as you need to communicate and he definitely wants to be able to hear you moan. It also made it feel less uncomfortable as it drowned out any silences or unattractive noises. Putting on a sexy music playlist always helped get me in the mood. You just have to do it and then decide what it is you want him to do. Something like Simon Says will get rid of any pressure as he will be telling you what to do.

If you are feeling shy and don’t know what to do then suggest a game. I felt much sillier for doing that than I ever had when I’ve let go and got into it. It just led to him feeling disappointed and me knowing it. I’ve been the girl who moaned that I didn’t know what to do or that I felt stupid. Besides all those parts of me I was trying to conceal, were parts of me that he loved and aroused him.Ĭonfidence really is sexy. He wasn’t stupid and could see I wasn’t into it. It was months into my relationship when my partner told me how unfulfilling it had been for him. The first few times I had sex on Skype I was more concerned about getting a good angle than actually getting myself off. When you’re having sex in a room on your own in front of a camera, you need all the help you can get. Not only is it nice for your partner but it helps to get you in the mood and feel sexy. I always wear some sexy Lingerie if I’m planning Skype sex. Don’t worry about it, it’s all part of the fun.

Especially the first time you do it, as it’s not likely to completely go to plan. The moral of the story is, before you plan on actually having cybersex get your account and cam setup. It ended up taking way over an hour to get to the stage of actually having any cyber sex. It was spur of the moment so neither of us actually had Skype set up. I tried to have Skype sex with my ex only a couple of months ago and it was a disaster. Now that lecture is over, shall we get to the good stuff? Make sure you are having Skype sex with someone you can trust and if necessary hide your face or any other identifying things like tattoos or birthmarks. It’s very important that I highlight that although Skype doesn’t have an option to record it is still possible for people to record the call. In a previous relationship, my partner and I lived an hour apart and used Skype a couple of times a week for some online intimacy. You’re definitely in the right place if you’re new to Skype sex and want some tips to get you started. Having sex on Skype can be a lot of fun and can also be the ideal solution for a long distance relationship.

How to have good skype sex